My boyfriend is addicted to anime ?

From what you wrote, you must have both come from broken families and have suffered some sort of abuse. The National Council on ual Addiction and Compulsivity defines ual addiction as "engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of ual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others," which is you too. ual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive ual thoughts and acts, "because it's all he thinks about." He has had to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results, raping you with a stuffed octopus. He needs to promptly treat this disorder. Help contact facilites for him, and you might find that considering therapy seperately for yourself could help you feel better about your family and feelings of abandonment and loneliness. Furthermore, if you are willing to learn more about coping and the recovery of ual addiction, pick up the book: Don't Call It Love: Recovery From Sexual Addiction by Patrick Carnes